I guess you can't control how other people perceive you. I try to be polite, but I have to retroactively edit these sort of comments to say the "correct" gender. I am neither pro or anti trans-i don't care-but it's hard to instinctively write she when you internally label someone as a he.
This is an issue strictly on the internet. It's easier not to misgender someone in real life if the transition is convincing. I worked in the service industry, and I just avoided pronouns all together if the appearance was ambiguous. It was awkward, especially for the cis-gender people who can't control the way that they look.


