And you kind of just did exactly what you said you didn’t, using these interactions as a validation of your claims against those of the people you disagree with.
You mean I claimed it invalidates their points? I really don't see how. Again, the points about usefulness of anonymity (which few people actually made) are not invalidated by the toxicity. People say "we need anonymity because X" (I don't think any real argument was made here so I don't even know what X is) and I say "the toxicity and misinformation outweigh the benefits of X". The arguments for X are still valid and if someone can give examples of X that outweigh the negative results of anonymity I will change my mind. So far all I've seen is "it's a slippery slope" and "you're a fascist".