If you literally put a line about dealbreakers in your main profile text, it can be quite offputting for the same reasons that the interview style dates are offputting.

Instead, write around the thing you want to say in a more positive way. For example: "I love to take sponteneous weekend trips. Where have you been last?" It filters out most people with fixed responsibiltites like kids and dogs, while opening up a conversation.

Or: "Unfortunately I meed to carry an epipen for when a cute dog does get to close. Fortunately my cat can snuggle with me all day". Again, you filter the people with dogs, but provide an opening to people who are still interested.

lol what. all i meet is women who hate kids and pets.

most women on city want to be DINKs and just travel non-stop. they have no interest in pets or family.

When I take my pets off my profile my matches SKYROCKET. it's crazy.

The other person's reply about how you present it is pretty apt. There's a big difference between "I have a shitty two-year old spawn I have to see on the weekends" and "I have joint custody with an amazing toddler. He loves the park and Legos, and so do I, so that works out"

But also imagine how you'd feel if you only found out the other person has some deal breaker for you after investing time and effort. Probably annoyed, right? Don't hide stuff or assume you're so great you can trivially change their world view, trauma, allergies, etc.