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... There are tons of women with legitimate daddy issues or other kinds of history of sexual abuse who also insist on using the phrase 'daddy' to refer to their male partner during sex.
These things are intertwined, to the point that you can often correctly infer that a woman has daddy issues, has a traumatic sexual history, when she keeps calling you daddy, unprompted.
This is what I was talking about, untill it was determined that I am apparently a misogynist for talking about this.
I've known a pretty good deal of straight women where this is the case.
I've also been just platonic friends with a good deal of women, girls, I was friends with, and then I was also friends with their boyfriends, where the girl using 'daddy' in sex led to the boyfriend asking me if she'd had something fucked up about her family life, and me basically saying 'not my place to tell you.'
Yeah, I'm doubling down against using 'daddy' during sex, unprompted, because in my experience, it very often indicates that that woman has been abused/groomed, and that I do not like the broad normalization of this.
I'm getting angry and emotional just writing this, as this brings up all the memories of female friends of mine I've just held while they cried, sometimes without explaining to me why, sometimes with me learning why, years later, in the roundabout fashion I described above.
Again, if its your kink to totally mutually consensually call people 'daddy' during sex, and your partner is into that, great, wonderful, go bananas.
Don't do that near me, don't show it to me, because it triggers a literally visceral series of traumatic memories within me, that I have because I was the person the abused girls cried with, the one they sought out to be consoled by.
Perhaps you can understand how my perference that ultimately derive from vivid memories of consoling female abuse victims ... itself being described as misogynistic... is enrgaging.