Ok so all police are bad, even if there are good hearted individuals that try to make a difference in a community, just because they joined a police force

Again, it's not about individual cops, it's about The Police. The Police have legal structures that protect them from the consequences of abusing citizens. So your average citizen is absolutely completely justified in treating every cop like they are bad, because they might be, and there is no way to know the difference, and the judicial system is on their side. If cops don't want to be treated like villains, they should be loudly and frequently advocating for changes to the system of The Police. If they can't even do that, how are you supposed to tell them from a bad cop who wants to hurt you?

What should be happening instead? Maintaining a basic rule of law and society is kind of important

I agree, in fact I think there should be more rules, like ones that protect the rights of citizens from government overreach and police brutality.

Divisive dismissing of any race, group, organization or entity isn’t helpful and is ignorant

Sorry but you're the one being silly. Again, cops choose to join the police, and it is completely incomparable to race. You are a fool.

It makes the problems worst, not better

Actually I think people advocating for better policing instead of just deepthroating "cops good" makes the problem better.

You become what you loathe.

"No u" wow so intelligent, you should write a book.

The solution is simple, if you want people to respect police, the police need to become respectable. As it stands they can abuse you with near impunity, so they get fear and disdain.

Why are you more concerned with the fear and disdain rather than the abuse?