you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] 74 points 7 months ago (17 children)

I dunno... You can be straight and still consider someone of the same sex attractive, just not so attractive that you'd want to sleep with them.

I'm ace and I find both Tom Ellis and Jenna Coleman attractive, but that doesn't mean I want to sleep with them, or anyone really.

  • source
  • hideshow 17 child comments
  • [–] 20 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    Stupid question time: Does the fact that you're ace omit the gay/straight spectrum entirely, or would you still place yourself on it somewhere?

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 5 child comments
  • [–] 12 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Some aces have a position on the gay/straight spectrum.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • [–] 25 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Aesthetic attraction vs Sexual attraction.

    You can find someone visually appealing without also finding them sexually appealing.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 1 child comment
  • [–] 8 points 7 months ago

    The two are not mutually exclusive.

    Sexual attractiveness also doesn’t mean sexual drive. One doesn’t need to be gay to understand that a man is sexually attractive in the way they find compelling. A desire to look good is all it takes.

  • source
  • parent
  • [–] 9 points 7 months ago (6 children)

    What does "ace" mean in this context?

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 6 child comments
  • [–] 18 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    Asexual, meaning they experience little to no sexual attraction.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 5 child comments
  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago (4 children)

    So, if no one experiences sexual attraction to me, what does that make me? Anti-sexual? Axes, maybe?

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 4 child comments