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[–] 1 point 8 months ago (6 children)

that's part of therapy and the internal work they must also do.

and "keep trying" is and will always be a much better advice than "don't keep trying".

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (5 children)

    Jfc, I'm not saying "don't keep trying". I'm saying "look at what works best for your situation", ffs. Read what I actually wrote.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (4 children)

    just saying, you can't solve loneliness without going out and meeting real people. online friends help, but it's the difference between a partner you can see, hug, do physical stuff together, and an LDR. Our brains need real human contact, an online chat Isn't the same.

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  • [–] -1 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    True. As soon as I go outside, my loneliness is solved, and I never want to go outside again.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (2 children)

    it takes work, and repetition, going outside and "touching grass" is noting.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    I'm horrified to be near any people, I have just developed downright anthrophobia after a while, I'm extremely messed up, and forcing me to interact with people (as my job does) only degrades me further.

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