No, it's far more than just consistency. There are many people with which a certain individual will not connect with, no matter the consistency.

Like, I get that it worked for you, and you want others to experience it as well. What you don't appreciate is that this absolutist advice can be downright harmful. If the person hearing this advice is someone who is burnt out from trying to connect, following this advice will only burn them out more. In that case, it needs a closer look to why it's burning them out, and what other factors may need to be looked at.

It's one thing to say "this worked for me, and might work for you depending on your situation", and another to say "this is always the solution, if it hasn't worked for you yet you haven't done it enough". You won't be able to properly drive a slot head screw with a Philips head screwdriver, no matter how much you try, and the answer there isn't, "you haven't tried enough".