Would you ever straight up say to your son, ‘You are a disappointment’?

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[–] 2 points 7 months ago

No.

Some people really seem to get something out of hurting other people. My best guess is that its a learned coping mechanism. "I feel bad so im going to make you feel bad and your response might fix whatever i feel bad about".

The only appropriate response is that whoever said that is a disappointing human.

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