Your perspective is more correct, because it starts out tiny and gets bigger. Clitoris is the default.

That is even better of an explanation!

It is there are steps between those, its getting pretty clear if you see them.

I’d say the penis is an engorged clit. But I guess it’s a perspective thing.

Probably a better way to look at it - barring specific hormonal triggers the parts that develop into genitals develop female structures by default. It's why people with CAIS always appear female regardless of genes unless you do some imaging and notice their "ovaries" look off.