Direct action isn't "force vs. force" in a vacuum it is people-led defence of a community's survival against those who would prioritise their own interests over the collective well-being. By framing enforcement as "individual action," you ignore the reality of mutual aid and horizontal organisation, wherein the community itself sets the standards for tolerated behaviour.
Removing the state doesn't leave a vacuum for might makes right it replaces top-down systemic coercion with horizontal accountability; Where a community’s refusal to cooperate with a bad actor is a far more sophisticated, and less violent, regulator than a politician who can be bought to look the other way and use the state apparatus to inflict physical violence on those who oppose.