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[–] 15 points 8 months ago (5 children)

What the fuck are you talking about? It doesn't matter if the partner who's cheating consents to having sex with another person, cheating is by default the violation of an agreement between two people to not fuck other people.

If you're cool with your partner fucking other people, they're not cheating on you.

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  • [+] -7 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    i won't disagree about it being a violation of a the relationships boundaries.

    but if your monogamous partner has consentual sex with someone else, you can get upset, but that doesn't mean he raped you by having sex without your consent.

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  • [–] 11 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Where are you getting rape from? That's not even remotely what's being discussed.

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  • [–] -5 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    you said that the problem in cheating is that the third party didn't consent. no one needs a third party consent for sex,

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