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[–] 6 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Making friends is a continuous process, or at least one that you need to return to pretty regularly. Especially when you get older and your friends start disappearing.

If you don't have kids of your own, it's easy to get dealt out of a bunch of socializing; it's worth it to be a supportive and present uncle/aunt/older cousin/family friend/whatever.

Friends that you stay close to for thirty years are special because they are rare.

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago* (1 child)

    It is continuing process but think it gets harder as u age coz ppl already have their core group and support network that they not very open to making new ones.

    Yes I'm somewhat active in hobby groups but some folks are reluctant to hang out outside of that hobby activity. I can/wiling to be that supporting role but it feels like my circle doesn't need me.

    Maybe it's a skill issue or having somewhat low confidence due to personal problem I'm currently having

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