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[–] 4 points 9 months ago (1 child)

Likewise, if a man is kind to a woman he'll generally be regarded with suspicion, like "what are you trying to get out of this?"

Maybe it is just me, but I don't think I've been viewed with suspicion because of simply being nice. If you're sincere and nice, then this typically doesn't happen. If you're known as kind of a dick and you switch to being nice, people will take notice. If you're being seen as love-bombing, you will be seen as suspect. While I agree men should not be typecast as only sex driven, I'm curious how this part of your argument came into it...

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago

    Ah, then you must also have the privilege of being either conventionally attractive, endowed with good social skills, well-integrated into an accepted social group, or some combination of the above.

    But go ahead and say anyone who has none of the above is probably a dick if he faces ostracization cause he probably deserves it.

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