Health Struggles (piefed-media.feddit.online)
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[–] 5 points 9 months ago (6 children)

Even worse, give a hint that you have mental health struggles, even if you don't actually do anything bad.

People instantly see you as lesser.

I learned the hard way to never vent to friends. Just give them a few bones, and pretend to be the perfect, ideal version of yourself that you can be. Tell them enough shows you like, and they will find one they are strongly opposed to. Complain about issues enough, and you become an energy draining vampire. Etc, etc.

It's better to expect nothing from everyone, recognize that anything you gain from humans has a cost, and to remove yourself from human influences as fast as possible.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    That's the way it is with any disease. If you hobble into a party with a compound fracture and turn all the conversations to that, it's going to make people uncomfortable. They're not doctors. They don't know how to deal with it. It's not that they think you're lesser. I have a dozen physical ailments plus bipolar disorder. The best thing to do is not to focus on it. If you can't do that, you need meds. And they work. Trust me. Go to the doctor and get treated.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago* (3 children)

    I'm guessing you're also an American. I feel you, friend. The US has a cultural toxic positivity problem, amongst other issues. Got a problem? STFU and turn that frown upside down! They're not problems but opportunities! It could be worse! It is... what it is. 🫠

    So people bottle up their negative emotions and don't learn how to deal with them. They don't know how to seek OR give support. Some feel threatened when presented with someone else's negative emotions, and it doesn't help that the other usually doesn't know how to present them, so they try to make it go away.

    I have no idea how to fix it on a societal level beyond learning to do better ourselves and setting a good example for others.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Well, thank you for the understanding, but I actually live somewhere known as Serbia.

    Here, if Rakija doesn't solve it, you are just a pussy 😭

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