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There’s something so uniquely terrifying about memory issues. I feel like my self is slipping away from me.
ace-disgrace-on-the-case - Here’s the thing I feel like a lot of folks don’t get: I’m not trying to forget what you said. Honestly, I really tried not to. I can’t control what I do and don’t remember—forgetting things just happens. It’s annoying for you, I know, but for me it’s distressing as hell and when you make a big deal out of it rather than just reminding me you make me feel ashamed. I’ll remember that, at least.
It costs you nothing to be kind to people with memory problems. Please. It’s scary enough without people treating memory lapses as a personal failing.

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[–] 3 points 11 months ago

I'm going through something similar with my parents. The frustrating part hasn't been the forgetting, it's more not trying to work around it.

I keep telling them to write things down if there are verbal plans being made, will remind them etc. then sometimes they just never do even if I chase a bit, or they'll write down the wrong thing or the plans will have changed and I'm not told and it just causes a whole mess.

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