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[–] 73 points 11 months ago (12 children)

"You should order the Steak" "I'll get something else, I'm a vegan" "Man, you guys just won't shut up about it, will you?"

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  • [–] 35 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (7 children)

    I work at a bakery and am vegan. Whenever we get a new cake or vegetarian sandwich, my coworkers ask me to try it. At least one of them, H, is always surprised to learn that dairy products are in fact made from milk.

    On the other hand, one of my coworkers brought in sesame sweets made without dairy, eggs, or honey and H didn’t believe they were actually vegan and kept making jokes about my cheat day.

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  • [–] 18 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    I feel your pain, and I'm concerned about someone who works at a bakery not knowing where ingredients came from.

    I'm not even vegetarian but I worked at a vegan/vegetarian restaurant where random people would come in to complain we didn't have any meat on the menu. Like legit walk up to the host stand, pick up a menu, shout "Is there any meat?" and leave in a huff when we tell them no.

    Their loss. I made a kick ass curry and put black bean burgers on the menu.

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago

    It’s pretty concerning, you’re right. I actually wrote a list of things that are vegan and vegetarian to keep in the back because some of my coworkers would give random answers when people asked about them (and we for some reason have chicken fat in our omelettes, so they seem vegetarian but aren’t).

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    Yeast is OK but honey is not? They both seem like a mild sort of symbiosis.

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    tbh I think H is such a massive troll, if you weren't vegan, they would just find something else incomprehensible.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago

    I can’t tell if H is a troll or just really stupid (or both). She and I clash about several subjects and she does sometimes straight antagonize the rest of us, but she’s also weirdly ill-informed about a lot of things and 67 years old. A lot of the antagonism seems to stem from her expecting everyone to defer to her because of her age, but because she’s not very smart, she orders us to do things that don’t make sense, then gets annoyed when we don’t.

    I mostly just try to ignore her and don’t accept any food from her unless it’s prepackaged and I know what it is.

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    You don't have to say that you're vegan, people already flip when you just don't take the meat option.

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  • [–] 5 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    You don't have to say that you're vegan, but it can simplify things when they either try to suggest other non-vegan options or insist that you really, really should try the steak because this one is really good

    Unfortunately it often leads to people reading the menu and pointing out everything on it that is vegan, as if you don't know how menus work or are struggling to read the same menu that they are. I know people who do this have their heart in the right place, I just wish their head was also in the right place. 😅

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago

    Habits are a weird thing. I always try to imagine doing the same thing the other way around. You eat meat? All meats? Even fish? So you just don't care, oooor? They have. A nice soup, but it has no meat in it, you think that's fine for you?

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago

    I work in hospitality, and if there was one group of people that were the worst to serve, it would be vegans. They'd never tell you before they got here that they were vegan, and yet still expect a full meal at a place that does a fixed menu

    You'd at least expect somebody who has such a strict diet to check the menu beforehand and tell the place. We don't have the same problem with FODMAP or coeliacs. Just bloody vegans

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