This week a bird flew into a room I was in, a small one. Ok, they are actually called blue tit, but don't let that distract, it's a nice little bird. Anyway, it couldn't find its way out, so I had to catch it in my hands. I was afraid I was going to hurt it by mistake, because it was trying to break free from my grip, but I managed to carry it back to the open window and it flew away (seemingly) happy. It's the second time this happens, so I started searching online for the correct way to carry a small bird that doesn't want to be carried. I did not find this information, but on a page about pet birds, I found this paragraph: "Spend quality time with your bird in a calm and positive manner. Offer treats, engage in gentle play, and use soft, soothing voices to build trust." I am not a bird of course, but you know what, that doesn't sound too bad! I want that. I showed it to my girlfriend and she gave me a look. We've been arguing a lot lately because she's been emotionally distant and sort of spiraling out of control. I just wish I had a life like that "how to treat your bird" description but mutual. Do you know what I mean?