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[–] 26 points 1 year ago (51 children)

I’m vegetarian. My partner is not. We mostly buy and eat vegetarian, but occasionally they’d like some real chicken or beef. I’ll even cook it for them, no problem. I just don’t eat it. It’s really easy to be in this type of relationship actually.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago*

    This anecdote is irrelevant to the topic because you're talking about merely cooking with different dietary preferences. Veganism is about respecting the lives, dignity, and autonomy of all animals, and therefore seeking to minimize harm done through personal actions and economic consumption. The only relation between the two topics is superficial. Carnism is absolutely a strain on relationships for vegans, and many would not consider partnering with people who gleefully consume the corpses of its victims.

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  • [+] -35 points 1 year ago* (49 children)

    Of course, as vegetarians are carnists. Two carnists in a relationship is standard.

    ‘I still think animals are products so don’t mind when others also do’

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  • [–] 31 points 1 year ago (23 children)

    I swear to god lemmy has the highest ratio of angsty purity testers I've ever seen.

    I've never been any place online where people hate other people that match with them like 99% of the way so god damn much.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (8 children)

    It is something to behold as a new user.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (7 children)

    it's common in all leftist spaces.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (3 children)

    But... that isnt what happened here

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

    Yes it is, the person I responded to said 'It’s really easy to be in this type of relationship actually.' in a thread about a vegan dating a carnist.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    folks out there, who do these things performatively especially online to gain some social points or something

    I actually think that you thinking this is a problem, is a large part of the problem. People refuse to recognize that other people might just have higher or different standards than them, and think it must be in bad faith. This leads to people who generally agree being fizzled out by all the other people they feel are speaking in bad faith (and there are many that are trying to support non leftist opinions tbf), and leads to leftists ending up being unable to realize that they are allies even if they don't perfectly align. TBF its kinda hard to see someone shitting on you (as they think you're a baddie with the fizzled out feather light triggers), but we kinda have to try to figure out how to do that, because otherwise, being a shitty human being is just a winning formula when they have a much easier time forming alliances because they can base their entire identities around hating some people for no good reason.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    For real, I think it's due to the nature of this being an Indi alternative platform. It is filled with extremists and people who get kicked out of other places.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Remember, the first real big explosion in users came from when reddit restricted its API. So, by definition, a bunch of angsty users resistant to change and intolerant of opposing viewpoints.

    During that original exodus, people remarked how friendly and tolerant and how people were willing to have constructive debate here. In reality, they were all united under their intolerance and hate for reddit.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Well, I am not fully in agreement there as I myself came here due to those restrictions but that is mostly because I primarily interact with reddit through boost and having it just suddenly get cut off was pretty shity. Not wanting to move platforms doesn't really come with the same assessment of the person as you are saying. This is on top of API restrictions being something annoying to me as a scientists so I'm happy to not bother much with reddit anymore.

    I think the issue is far more related to the other channels which pull in members. Lemmy users are probably more likely to be those who are either hobby enthusists in self hosting, people who are strong pro piracy supporters, people from political extremists groups (in particular leftists groups due to the history of the platform), or those from marginal communities. You also have the big group of people who were barred from other platforms, like the API restriction or the far worse group of people banned from reddit which people will post about proudly regardless of if that ban was reasonable or not.

    I like Lemmy a lot, but it's like any indi space, both filled with great unique things and things that make me want to travel the Australian outback without gas or water.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

    Reddit should be hated and not tolerated tho??

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    Your point is that people who left a platform because it made decisions they disagreed with don't like it anymore? Shocking

    Reddit is still the best place to go for a lot of niche communities you can't really find anywhere else. That doesn't change the fact that it has a lot of issues that stem from both the community culture there and the C-suite execs calling the shots, making it worse at every turn in pursuit of profit.

    You'll find I have similar opinions of most large social media companies. I just don't talk about them as much because they were never appealing to me in the first place. Reddit had its problems dating wayy back but I enjoyed it for what it offered. You gotta draw the line somewhere, and I drew mine at the API shenanigans

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I don’t hate anyone I’m just blunt and don’t care about social norms.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    Given that we are a social species, that sounds like a terrible way to get literally anything you want accomplished by anyone else.

    More than that, it absolutely sounds like you hate people given the vitriol you spat at that person who clearly agrees with you a majority of the way.

    You also, even if you don't care about social norms clearly understand the difference between not, for instance, participating in a silly tradition, and being unnecessarily and unhelpfully rude and aggressive.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago

    The veggie? I view them further away from vegan ideologically than the average person. It’s not an ethical stance it’s an aversion to flesh and/or trying to shift responsibility away from themselves.

    And it wasn’t vitriol I just said she views animals as products so no surprise she doesn’t see an issue?

    The silly tradition I don’t participate is in speaking to people like they’re too dumb to hear the truth. That’s how I learned.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Believing that animals should have basic rights, at least some degree of sovereignty; and the dignity to not be systematically confined, in constant abuse and outright torture, forcibly bred, exploited and enslaved in every possible way, to have their byproducts extracted to the detriment of their own health, and finally to be slaughtered on a scale that puts every other human atrocity to shame - is not a fucking purity test, it's a god damn moral baseline.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

    Except the other person is most of the way with that viewpoint, hence me calling it a purity test.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    But they're really not. The harms and atrocities that come from dairy and eggs are arguably worse than meat itself, and the former industries drive the latter to some extent because it's not profitable to care for animals for the duration of their natural lifespan.

    Vegetarianism is neither ideologically or functionally different than any other form of animal commodification.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago

    The harms and atrocities that come from dairy and eggs are arguably worse than meat itself

    Certifiably cap, just from the scale of it all. Meat production has a non insignificant amount of environmental impact.

    Dairy does too, but meat, you need more animals to kill.

    and the former industries drive the latter to some extent

    This is exactly backwards

    Vegetarianism is neither ideologically or functionally different than any other form of animal commodification.

    This is so absurd on its face that I don't think you're reasonable enough to bother arguing with, and don't think anyone reading this will think you are, so I'd just be wasting my time.

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  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago (8 children)

    Thats bullshit and you know it, go be a pissed off teenager somewhere else.

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    Vegetarians aren't carnists. Being reductionist is an immature thing. We do that for children so they can grasp things before they are ready for the full details.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (4 children)

    No, they dont. Go learn more about how actual people live in the real world.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (3 children)

    Yes they do. Otherwise they’d realise it’s not theirs to take and not partake.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

    Just because some people dont live according to your definitions doesnt make them wrong, it makes them different. Different doesnt mean good or bad.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Brave soldier taking the downvotes. honestly lemmy has been disappointing and not much of an improvement on Reddit in mindset

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (9 children)

    You don’t realize it, but this is actually a non sequitur. You’re right, I am a carnist! I don’t see a moral issue with a human (animal) eating an animal or animal based product. In fact, lots of animals eat animals!

    You’re wrong, however, to say that I view animals as products. I do take issue with the industries relating to animal consumption. I take issue with the damage they do to the planet, I take issue with the way they treat the animals, and I take issue with the hygiene and working conditions for those involved. Ideally, I’d live in a world where it was possible to morally eat whatever you fancy. Unfortunately, I live in a world where you have to eat what you can afford.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Depends on the situation, if you're a hunter gatherer and it's your only source of sustinance sure, if you can get whatever you want from the supermarket choosing to still eat animals that's needlessly cruel

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    Get whatever you want from the supermarket

    God I wish I had that kind of money

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (5 children)

    legumes and plant stuff is generally cheaper than animal stuff, so it's a good way to save too potentially

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Literally the only animal products I consume are ones that are cheaper to buy than alternatives: dairy cheese and eggs.

    I spend extra on alternative milks. Alternative eggs are more expensive or significantly more effort (yes tofu scramble is doable. No I don’t have the time). I could live without cheese, or on alternative cheeses. But, cheese actually makes up a pretty large sum of calorie intake because it is cheap and can be made to be relatively healthy in most dishes.

    It all boils down to money. I already spend extra money on alternative meats, and milks and raw fruits and vegetables. I still have to have money for my other responsibilities, so I make some dietary sacrifices. But I’m sure that poverty isn’t a good enough reason to sacrifice my purity to most vegans.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

    The time, for tofu scramble? It’s literally quicker cheaper and much healthier than doing it with eggs???

    Same thing with egg salad, etc. few packs of silken tofu in a Tupperware with black salt, butter, etc.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    any sources on eggs being unhealthy? I don't eat them for ethical reasons but I thought they were full of good nutrients and minerals and such

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    They’re a dense source of nutrients but not optimal. Full of sat. Fat and cholesterol. Optimal amount of dietary cholesterol is 0.

    Cholesterol has less impact the more you eat so someone who is already eating a cholesterol-rich diet won’t see much additional negative impact from adding additional eggs. Egg industry realised this and was able to push a bunch of bunk science and label eggs as ‘healthy’

    Copy pasta below

    Cholesterol

    ❗️ Dietary cholesterol does raise serum cholesterol level (mostly LDL and to a lesser extent apo-B), given that; a) baseline serum level is low enough
    b) baseline intake is low.

    Cholesterol is too big and bulky to cross the blood-brain barrier from the body's blood vessels into the brain tissue—so the brain makes all of its own cholesterol on site

    • So, the impact of dietary cholesterol is in part dependent on your baseline serum cholesterol level and on your baseline dietary cholesterol intake.
    • Given that the average american cholesterol level is 192mg/dl and the average daily intake is 300-400mg, most people are not likely to see a difference on their cholesterol level by adding more eggs, hence they come to the conclusion that eggs have no impact. But this is false when you start with a low (read normal) baseline intake and serum level.
    • Dietary cholesterol and egg yolks: Not for patients at risk of vascular disease
      • The effects of dietary cholesterol on serum cholesterol are, in part, dependent on the diet and the characteristics of the individual consuming the cholesterol. Dietary cholesterol has a much greater effect on people consuming a low-cholesterol diet, with a threshold effect as shown by Connor et al (31)

    • Effects of dietary cholesterol on serum cholesterol: a meta-analysis and review.
      • When modest amounts of cholesterol are added to the daily diet, the major predictor of change in serum cholesterol is baseline dietary cholesterol. Thus, when one or two eggs are added to a diet that is typical for the average American (containing ı400 mg/d), little change would be expected. [...] These observations suggest that persons who are accustomed to a very-low cholesterol diet may be more sensitive to dietary changes.

      • Serum cholesterol concentration is clearly increased by added dietary cholesterol but the magnitude of predicted change is modulated by baseline dietary cholesterol. The greatest response is expected when baseline dietary cholesterol is near zero, while little, if any, measurable change would be expected once baseline dietary cholesterol was > 400-500 mg/d. People desiring maximal reduction of serum cholesterol by dietary means may have to reduce their dietary cholesterol to minimal levels (< 100-150 mg/d) to observe modest serum cholesterol reductions while persons eating a diet relatively rich in cholesterol would be expected to experience little change in serum cholesterol after adding even large amounts of cholesterol to their diet.

    • Evidences from meta-analysis #metaAnalysis
      • Dietary cholesterol from eggs increases the ratio of total cholesterol to high-density lipoprotein cholesterol in humans: a meta-analysis
        • RESULTS: The addition of 100 mg dietary cholesterol/d increased the ratio of total to HDL cholesterol by 0.020 units (95% CI: 0.010, 0.030), total cholesterol concentrations by 0.056 mmol/L (2.2 mg/dL) (95% CI: 0.046, 0.065 mmol/L; 1.8, 2.5 mg/dL), and HDL-cholesterol concentrations by 0.008 mmol/L (0.3 mg/dL) (95% CI: 0.005, 0.010 mmol/L; 0.2, 0.4 mg/dL).

      • Dietary cholesterol and cardiovascular disease: a systematic review and meta-analysis.
      • Dietary cholesterol statistically significantly increased both serum total cholesterol (17 trials; net change: 11.2 mg/dL; 95% CI: 6.4, 15.9) and low-density lipoprotein (LDL) cholesterol (14 trials; net change: 6.7 mg/dL; 95% CI: 1.7, 11.7 mg/dL). Increases in LDL cholesterol were no longer statistically significant when intervention doses exceeded 900 mg/d. Dietary cholesterol also statistically significantly increased serum high-density lipoprotein cholesterol (13 trials; net change: 3.2 mg/dL; 95% CI: 0.9, 9.7 mg/dL) and the LDL to high-density lipoprotein ratio (5 trials; net change: 0.2; 95% CI: 0.0, 0.3).

        • Plasma lipid and lipoprotein responses to dietary fat and cholesterol: a meta-analysis.
        • Predictions indicated that compliance with current dietary recommendations (30% of energy from fat, < 10% from saturated fat, and < 300 mg cholesterol/d) will reduce plasma total and low-density-lipoprotein-cholesterol concentrations by approximately 5% compared with amounts associated with the average American diet.

        • Dietary lipids and blood cholesterol: quantitative meta-analysis of metabolic ward studies.
        • Avoiding 200 mg/day dietary cholesterol further decreased blood total cholesterol by 0.13 (0.02) mmol/l and low density lipoprotein cholesterol by 0.10 (0.02) mmol/l.
    • Evidences from eggs feeding studies
      • Effect of egg yolk feeding on the concentration and composition of serum lipoproteins in man

      • Upon egg yolk feeding the mean level of serum total cholesterol rose by 13%; the bulk of this rise was due to LDL cholesterol, which increased by 21%. VLDL and IDL cholesterol decreased by 19 and 11%, and serum total triglycerides by 17%.
      • Cholesterol feeding increases low density lipoprotein synthesis.
      • Egg supplementation raised high density and low density lipoprotein cholesterol levels by 18 and 40%, respectively.

      • A dose-response study of the effects of dietary cholesterol on fasting and postprandial lipid and lipoprotein metabolism in healthy young men.

      • Fasting plasma total cholesterol concentrations increased by 1.47 mg/dL (0.038 mmol/L) for every 100 mg dietary cholesterol added to the diet (P < .001). Low-density lipoprotein (LDL) cholesterol increased in parallel. Responsiveness varied but appeared to be normally distributed. Fasting plasma apoprotein B concentrations increased approximately 10% between the 0- and 4-egg diets and were correlated with changes in total and LDL cholesterol concentrations.

      • The serum lipids in men receiving high cholesterol and cholesterol-free diets
      • The addition of dietary cholesterol in the form of egg yolk caused a significant increase in the concentration of cholesterol and phospholipid in the serum. The serum cholesterol and phospholipid decreased greatly when egg yolk cholesterol was removed from the diet.

      • Ingestion of egg raises plasma low density lipoproteins in free-living subjects
      • Mean plasma low density lipoprotein (LDL) cholesterol was 12% higher (p = 0.005) and mean plasma apolipoprotein B was 9% higher (p = 0.007) when eggs were being consumed than during the eggless period.

      • Effects of dietary cholesterol and fatty acids on plasma lipoproteins.
      • Addition of 750 mg cholesterol to the diet with P/S = 0.25-0.4 raised LDL cholesterol by 16 +/- 14 mg/dl to 115% of basal diet values (n = 11, P less than 0.01); 1,500 mg increased LDL cholesterol by 25 +/- 19 mg/dl to 125% (n = 9, P less than 0.01).
    • Dietary cholesterol does raise serum cholesterol level (mostly LDL and to a lesser extent apo-B), given that a) baseline serum level is low enough and b) baseline intake is low.
    • If anyone has high-cholesterol, lowering dietary cholesterol intake to <200mg will certainly have a positive impact on this number.
    • Effect of ingestion of meat on plasma cholesterol of vegetarians.
    • Optimal low-density lipoprotein is 50 to 70 mg/dl: lower is better and physiologically normal.
    • Meat raises cholesterol (heart disease risk) https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9006469
    • Relation Between Progression and Regression of Atherosclerotic Left Main Coronary Artery Disease and Serum Cholesterol Levels as Assessed With Serial Long-Term (>12 Months) Follow-Up Intravascular Ultrasound
    • https://www.reddit.com/r/nutrition/comments/544lx0/dietary_cholesterol_do_increase_serum_cholesterol/
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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Ye, that does sound fair. Honest question; do you bake? In what way are eggs necessary? I've only been vegan for about two months, and haven't missed eggs in any way; tofu scramble takes like 5 minutes, I just mix it in a pan, it's good. I'm on a fairly low/ average budget and I manage to hit my calorie goals, macros and even gained a bit of weight (have had struggles with that my whole life) Also where do you live? I'm lucky that milks are only slightly more expensive. I haven't had any alternative meat, my proteins come from mostly legumes. And raw fruits and veggies are considered vegan food? I thought everyone was having those. Also why care about "vegan purity checks", you're doing better than like 90% of people, the most important thing is to be happy with yourself.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Dairy cows and hens are still destined for the meat grinder, regardless of the vegetarian's choices.

    So you're absolutely right. Sad to see the downvotes

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