I made a similar post a couple of years ago, but I think it's time again after seeing a few nice-guy/incel posts here. So, guys who have made it to the other side, what would you say to your previous self? I'll leave my own personal answer in a comment below.

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[–] 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

This right here. Exact same thing for me.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Your first line of how it all seems stupidly obvious now is so true. But that's the thing about being self-centered, that you can't get any other perspective on it.

    I'm glad you were able to get out of that cycle!

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