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[–] curbstickle@anarchist.nexus 17 points 1 year ago (5 children)

That the trauma inflicted on them drove them to be hateful, not the trauma inflected from being hateful.

The hate as the result (as in, an unhealthy coping mechanism), not the cause.

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[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (4 children)

It seems like a difficult thing to do in practice. You wouldn't know they had trauma until they started acting out their hate.

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[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

That's the trauma, the oppression of their own sexual freedom which leads to homophobia

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[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

But, how would you know to treat it before they acted out their hate? Are you saying we should have compassion after they acted out their homophobia?

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[–] classic@fedia.io 9 points 1 year ago (1 child)

Compassion and accountability can be concurrent

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[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works -1 points 1 year ago

Absolutely. Is that what you're saying you want? You're being extremely dodgy about what you're saying. I'm not trying to go after you or anything. I honestly don't understand.

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