I am a woman, a mom, a wife, and certainly not young. But you can't just go around trying to immediately wife people. You have to meet as individuals and see how it goes, and it's husband and wife, not "find me a wife" or "find me a husband". You can't know that until you know the person as a person.

(And by all means, continue blaming factors other than yourself, when the only one you actually have some control over is yourself.)