Interesting about texture, I wasn't sure if I wanted smooth or textured, I thought it was just about pressure not drawing the material out. I have been careful to get a nice clean/square edge before starting though.
The other thing I've been uncertain about is how big the burr should be — just big enough to feel, enough to really hold into a thumbnail? Or does it work either way?
I like the diamond hones. I got Atoma diamond plates from the Burrfection store. I had been using water stones before, and these are much less messy and durable. They do go a bit faster but I feel like I can just take care not to take off too much material. And when I do hit a nail with my brand new plane (sob), at least I work down to fresh iron somewhat quickly.