We were going to take a vacation in Mexico, a little after the actual anniversary. I was hoping it was going to be a nice bonding experience, but oh well, not to be.

This is useful context if you want more detail - was intentionally vague on timelines in this post but it was within the first 5 years of marriage: https://sh.itjust.works/comment/18349778

Reiterates the importance that the guilty party actually needs to reform for anything in that post to mean fuck all.

I appreciate your well-wishes.