My marriage of 9 years, 361 days has ended today.

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[–] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

Damn 4 days before the 10th anniversary. I am sorry for you. Did you or your ex plan anything for that supposedly special day? It seems like your ex did it a first time and again. How much time did pass between those gut wrenching incidents? I hope you can find the strength to navigate the next steps.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 1 year ago*

    We were going to take a vacation in Mexico, a little after the actual anniversary. I was hoping it was going to be a nice bonding experience, but oh well, not to be.

    This is useful context if you want more detail - was intentionally vague on timelines in this post but it was within the first 5 years of marriage: https://sh.itjust.works/comment/18349778

    Reiterates the importance that the guilty party actually needs to reform for anything in that post to mean fuck all.

    I appreciate your well-wishes.

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