The dinner my now 5 year old requested for her birthday. Steak, bacon, grapes, and broccoli with cheese
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The wine is just for the adults
Pretty solid meal. Looks fancy. I agree with whoever said grape juice in a wine glass. Anything in a wine glass makes it fancy, actually.
I am trying to remember what my kids wanted at that age. I think they mostly would have requested chili. Did feed them lots of different things and all grew up with good broad palates.