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Apologies for some recent downtime and speed issues. The site was having some issues with random slowness, which was related to the downtime and should now be fixed.

We had some downtime earlier this month due to the hosting provider (Linode) "experiencing an unexpected issue that requires immediate emergency work to be performed". That lasted from about 05:00 to 15:00 (UTC) on April 6th. The instance didn't come back up properly, due to an issue with podman networking. The networking was mostly fixed but still had random timeouts. The config was adjusted April 16th, which unfortunately resulted in some downtime from approximately 18:00 to 19:00 UTC. The random timeout issue should be fixed and Discuss Online should be generally speedy now though! Please comment if you encounter any issues with the site's responsiveness

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Community Guidelines

These guidelines exist to keep this space worth being in — a place for genuine curiosity, good-faith conversation, and ideas worth sharing.

What Belongs Here

Post things that reward intellectual curiosity. The best submissions open up a topic, reveal something surprising, or spark a conversation that couldn't happen anywhere else. If you'd see it on the evening news, it probably doesn't belong here. If it would make a thoughtful person lean forward, it probably does.

Post original sources. If you found something through another site, link the original.

Use titles honestly. Don't embellish, editorialize, or use ALL CAPS for emphasis. Crop gratuitous numbers ("10 Ways to Do X" → "How to Do X"). If something is a video or PDF, note it: [video] or [pdf].

Don't use this community primarily for self-promotion. Sharing your own work occasionally is fine — just make sure it's a small part of your participation, not the whole of it.

How to Comment

Lead with curiosity, not conclusions. The best comments ask better questions or surface things others missed. They don't just announce an opinion, they add to the conversation.

Assume good faith. Before responding, ask yourself: what's the most reasonable interpretation of what this person said? Start there. This is the Principle of Charity in practice: treat others as intelligent people making a real point, even if they're making it imperfectly.

Disagree with the argument, not the person. If someone is wrong, explain why. "Here's what I think is missing from that view…" is more useful than any version of "that's wrong/naive/silly."

Be substantive, especially when it matters most. On contentious topics, shallow takes make things worse. Take the extra moment to say something real.

Don't be a curmudgeon. Thoughtful criticism is welcome. Generic negativity isn't.

Skip the performance. No sneering, no fulminating, no internet tropes, no flamebait. If a comment exists mainly to score points or signal a team, it doesn't belong here.

Don't pile on. If something has already been said, you don't need to add +1. If you can add something new, do.

Humor is welcome — if it earns it. A well-placed joke can be the best comment in a thread. Low-effort joke responses are just noise.

Tone and Temperament

Be kind. There's a real person on the other side of every comment.

Don't cross-examine. Ask questions out of genuine interest, not to trap someone.

Edit out the swipes. Even if a point is valid, it lands better without the dig attached.

If a thread is getting heated, be the one who lowers the temperature.

Things That Don't Belong Here

  • Political or ideological point-scoring (it kills curiosity)
  • Insinuations about bad faith, shilling, or coordinated behavior — if you're genuinely concerned, contact the admins privately
  • Complaints about other users' votes or whether someone read the article
  • Comments pointing out that a post is off-topic — flag it instead
  • Shallow dismissals of others' work

A Note on the Principle of Charity

This community takes the Principle of Charity seriously, not as a rule to enforce, but as a practice to cultivate. It means: when someone's meaning is unclear, choose the most reasonable interpretation. When someone is wrong, engage with their best argument, not their weakest one. When someone seems to be acting in bad faith, consider that they might just be expressing something poorly.

This doesn't mean agreement. It means the kind of intellectual honesty that makes disagreement productive.

When in doubt: would this comment make the conversation better? If yes, post it. If not, hold it.

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Hello!

Recently, we announced a call for admins following a transfer of ownership. Several people responded, and we're very grateful to @infinitevalence@discuss.online, @Itwasntme223@discuss.online, and @pulsejet@discuss.online for helping out. They've each been helping the Fediverse grow for some time now, and we're excited that they'll contribute via admin duties as well. Here's an introduction from each one of them:

  • @infinitevalence@discuss.online
    • I joined the Discuss.Online website as part of the Reddit API boycott. Originally I had planned on setting up my own personal instance but was convinced by JGRIM the original owner and administrator of Discuss.Online to join his instance. I have been a moderator for a few different communities since then, and when the call came out for new admins it did not seem like too big an ask to raise my hand.

      I enjoy self-hosting, computer hardware, video games, 3d printing, keyboards, and I love diving into new areas of tech I am not familiar with as it feeds my ADHD brain.

      I am passionate about Open Source and Free software. I want to move away from corporation owned platforms back to the good old days of distributed services. The Fediverse may not be perfect but its the right idea behind what the web was supposed to be, and what we can make it into again.

  • @Itwasntme223@discuss.online
    • When it comes to the internet, I have been on it long enough to remember when the word was capitalized. I spent most of my time on YIM, AIM, gchat, reddit and the like, moderating on reddit and Discord most recently. It was only when things started to go to hell that I began to look for alternatives. It was the time of the Blue bird disaster that I joined my first fediverse instance. Since then I have been living on the Fediverse, helping and supporting where I can!

  • @pulsejet@discuss.online
    • I'm a big believer in federated and open systems, I think all voices need to be heard in a constructive and collaborative environment. I run a few niche communities that pique my interests by my intention as a admin is to just ensure the server rules are followed with minimal bias. I'm happy to help keep lemmy going and look forward to seeing the overall community grow and become foundational to the internet.

Thanks, @m_f@discuss.online

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Hello!

I'd like to let everyone know about a change in ownership of Discuss.Online. Previously it was hosted and paid for by @jgrim@discuss.online, but he is taking a break from the Fediverse for now to deal with personal issues. He's handed it off to me to host and stepped down as Lemmy admin. When he's back, he plans on focusing on Sublinks. He's done a great job of running and growing discuss.online, and I wanted to help continue the mission and keep the Fediverse stable (RIP lemm.ee). I don't plan on making any major changes for now, just focus on keeping things stable and smooth.

There was some downtime last Saturday during the handover, announced here. There were some further federation issues with Matrix that persisted until Wednesday and should now be resolved. If you see any other issues, please let me know. I'm working on stability and monitoring to ensure everything keeps running well.

@lazyguru@discuss.online is stepping down as admin as well, which leaves us with no other dedicated admins. The other listed admins are from lemmy.world and have done a great job of helping out but can't dedicate their full attention to discuss.online. If anyone is interested in helping out with admin tasks, please speak up! It would mostly involve responding to reports and applications. I'm generally pretty responsive to them already, so it shouldn't involve a lot of work.

Thanks, @m_f@discuss.online

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Apologies for the short notice. Should be back up within a few hours

EDIT: Think we're back up. Sorry again about the short notice, we had to migrate hosts. Will post more later