I think this is super insightful. I have seen what you’re describing as “a sense of justice” play out a few times and it rarely ends well. I’d like to hear more if you’re willing.

My thoughts are that the person feeling slighted is feeling like they are investing more into the friendship than the other and it’s painful to realize- and since it’s probably happened to them before they realize they’re in the cycle OPs image detailed and start to pull back their energy to test the friendship. If the friend stops reaching back then it’s taken as confirmation that it was a one way thing.

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  • I didn’t have a chance to watch the video but I did scan the article and didn’t find how he configured a Zima board to handle Raid. Presumably it’s running CasaOS so I’m wondering he he pulled off true Raid5/10 without having to rely on their fake raid logical drive storage pool?

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