cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/53562706

I enjoy the subjects I majored in, history and geography but something I simply cannot is dealing with bratty children who for whatever reason consider a teacher an enemy.

I am also a registered nurse with almost 4 years working bedside, if that helps.

 

This happens in Europe.

As previously said, I’m a nurse.

Before working as a nurse I majored in History and Geography and have a M.Ed. for both subjects. These are subjects I always enjoyed and I always enjoyed explaining history to those interested in it but I couldn’t deal with teenagers acting like teenagers do, and parents outright lying to me, and burned out. After that and moving elsewhere I majored in nursing and started working at different hospitals.

I am now in a better financial situation and I’m planning my way out of bedside: It’s either studying a B.Sc. to become a Physician Assistant or studying a B.Ed. to become a Nurse Educator.

Nurse Educator would be the shorter way due to my M.Ed. and students wouldn’t be bratty teenagers, I hope. It would be a better life than my current one, a safe choice, a predictable life. I don’t want more than that. I enjoyed explaining history, I enjoy explaining things to patients, I would enjoy teaching nursing to nursing students who are there not because they must, like in high school, but because they actually want.

Physician Assistant is also an interesting field: I’d simply study more comprehensively what I now know superficially, I would handle things I'm currently doing unofficially in an official capacity, it’s also a safe bachelor because people are always getting sick, I wouldn’t be a nurse anymore and wouldn’t have to bear the brunt of the physical work I now do. I wouldn’t have to retire early like so many nurses do because they’re physically broken, it would be a more mental job. I like explaining to patients what a procedure means for them, what risks may be present, what happens afterwards, how organs work… because so many doctors simply do but won’t explain why and what they do and that means the patient get angry and nurses are the ones paying for it.

Either way, I hope to leave behind the incredible, insufferable cattiness that permeates nursing, the backstabbing, the gossip over stupid stuff and 5 people yelling at you contradictory orders at the same time. I’m too old for that stuff.

But I fear I’ll have to deal with the same kind of childish people I now have to deal with, because even some doctors are simply older children, not adults.

Another question here is if any of these 2 bachelors opens me doors to jobs where I don’t have to deal with immature coworkers, or if any of those bachelors allows me to choose what kind of people I work with: I know of good, competent coworkers who refuse to work with certain doctors because they are simply not good, to the point of changing hospitals, I know others who simply don’t want to work at hospitals so they seek better opportunities elsewhere. I want that kind of freedom, to choose the kind of people I work with. Is either of these bachelors the way to achieve that?

I’m also scared of continuing my education because there is an absolute nurse shortage and no wonder why, it’s a complete shit job nobody sane wants to do, because it breaks you. But this shortage means I’ll never be out of a job, whereas if I pursue any of those bachelors, I may end up unemployed.

Anything you write would help me. Thank you.

 

This happens in Europe.

I’m a nurse looking for something else because my job now is breaking my back, literally. I was at home for several weeks because of back pain.

A B.Sc. Physician Assistant would mean that 20% bump, it’s something I’ve always considered, but I’d miss just working 35 hours a week instead of 39. That’s 16 hours per month, 2 free days per month. I’d feel like a loser. I really want those free 2 days per month.

There’s a small practice that would cover the costs of that B.Sc. and offer me a job, so I’d work and study at the same time… but 39 hours per week, till I retire… I don’t want that.

There are other bachelors I could pursue, like Case Management, but that would earn me less than that 20%. Still 39 hours per week.

I’m not going back to bedside.

To make it more complicated, this 35 hour per week workplace is unionized, most smaller practices are not.

If you know of other bachelors I could pursue, simply post them.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/52667780

I’ve started investing in ETFs (S&P 500) but wonder if it would be better to buy a property instead and put it to rent.

I’m in my early 40s and I plan to regularly invest in this and similar worldwide ETFs in the next 25 years, as complement to my public pension.

A coworker told me he saved money to buy a house and put it to rent. He can always move in if he wants and it gives him a stable source of income per month. I don’t know how much.

I don’t know if investing in ETFs in wiser here: on one hand I want a quiet life and now I simply work and the money gets invested automatically once per month. I’ve never been a landlord and I wonder if the learning curve would be too steep. Furthermore, I don’t believe I want to be a landlord. Ain’t it too stressful?

 

I’ve started investing in ETFs (S&P 500) but wonder if it would be better to buy a property instead and put it to rent.

I’m in my early 40s and I plan to regularly invest in this and similar worldwide ETFs in the next 25 years, as complement to my public pension.

A coworker told me he saved money to buy a house and put it to rent. He can always move in if he wants and it gives him a stable source of income per month. I don’t know how much.

I don’t know if investing in ETFs in wiser here: on one hand I want a quiet life and now I simply work and the money gets invested automatically once per month. I’ve never been a landlord and I wonder if the learning curve would be too steep. Furthermore, I don’t believe I want to be a landlord. Ain’t it too stressful?