[–] [S] 5 points 1 week ago (1 child)

It's the culture here. Very passive. Bullying rates are very high unfortunately.

I'm going to keep pressure on the staff and karate in th meantime. Karate isn't about violence inherently. I did some martial arts and I hate fighting, but I also have decent situational awareness and can avoid a fight because of it.

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  • [–] [S] 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Personally, I'm in favor of karate because I think it could help my child block and avoid physical attacks. Plus the confidence of being able to handle a fight without panicking.

    Martial arts isn't always about escalating with more violence. Plus my son isn't violent and won't be punching anyone anytime soon, but being able to dodge/block is very cool.

    I fully agree that teachers should handle this, but they aren't.

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    My child is being punched at kindergarten by a girl who also continually does things to him. For example, putting soap on his chair, messing with his outdoor clothes, etc.

    The teachers know and have talked to the girl's parents, but the behavior continues. My child is scared to go and cries about it sometimes. I'm not entirely sure how to handle it, because that's the teachers job and I'm not there to help or see it.

    Eventually, I'm considering involving the police, but that seems pretty last resort.

    Any suggestions?

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    The director and teachers are all aware of the issues