[–] 3 points 9 months ago

All over the place, I have so many.

I would keep them in something that's partially open. Some materials are a bit porous and need time to dry completely otherwise they'll get mouldy

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  • [–] 8 points 10 months ago*

    Yeah but it's manageable. Everyone in our community tests every 3 months, I also have the VPH vaccine.

    The only one time I came close was 2 years ago, a friend called me and said she had gonorrea and I had to get tested. I didn't have it but the chance was low anyway because I never have intercourse without condom. Even in relationships I don't. I only do oral without. Condoms don't bother me and I like the slightly reduced sensitivity so I can go longer and edging becomes easier. I even use condoms with toys.

    The HPV vaccine I did want to get because it's high risk now, there's two variants which often cause cancer. And condoms don't fully prevent it.

    So anyway it's very manageable if you're not careless.

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  • [–] 10 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

    I like it. It's fun, sometimes you make a real connection and it feels really good. Sometimes not and it's meh. But still it beats sitting at home alone.

    I do really like to take my time though. Which can be an issue because surprisingly many people really want quickies.

    For me it's not right if I don't spend at least an hour on foreplay, teasing etc. Chatting. Give an erotic massage, go down etc. I even like that better than intercourse. The whole bang bang bye in 10 minutes doesn't really do it for me. But even in the very promiscuous culture it doesn't have to be like that. Especially in the hetero scene.

    When you find someone nice the mood can easily go that way and then it's amazing. Also, it's nice to share intimacy with different people, different energies. Sometimes it doesn't happen but still it's worth the try.

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