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I want to hear all about the stuff you either don't approve of or don't enjoy, and why that's the case :) Happy Sunday

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[–] 23 points 10 months ago

I'll have nothing to do with feces, blood or pain( giving or receiving)

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  • [–] 20 points 10 months ago (7 children)

    Aside from the usual two, diaper stuff turns me off super fast. No thanks!

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  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago (6 children)

    yeah diaper stuff just creeps me out. I want an adult >_<

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  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago (5 children)

    I want an adult close to my age, but also immature like me (into Pokemon, non-sexualy).

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    I actually really really really dislike age gap relationships. There were two separate instances where a woman told me she liked me but wanted to keep dating her much older boyfriend because he could simply provide more stuff. I've been called all kinds of names for not liking age gaps, but I'm not backing down from this.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago (3 children)

    That's fair. Iirc, I was actually interested in a 40 year old, even though she was quite older than me, because eh, everyone deserves a chance? But then I remembered I'm an emotional wreck, so I decided not to pursue.

    But I also have my date limit at about 25 minimum (for dating) and 22 for fun butt stuff (saying sex gets boring). I still find those kind of icky, but you have to engage with someone. I don't think I would do anything with younger people besides give advice, NSFW memes, or praise.

    So ironicaly enough, someone 10 years older said they would not date someone 10 years younger, and I was like "what do they got that I don't", even though I was not even interested in them.

    So, it does not go both ways I guess.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    For what it's worth, I have dated with significant age gaps in both directions. It becomes difficult simply because you're in different places in your lives. I would recommend, for actual relationships, to continue doing what you're doing and date roughly the same age.

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  • [–] 14 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (3 children)

    CNC. Hot when done to you, but how tf am I supposed to ever feel comfortable playing it out with someone? I have to think if they are actually into it all the time, have to act in a way that I find kind of icky, so I could never do propper CNC.

    SCAT/PISS. Maybe I could tolerate piss, but SCAT? No no no, especially the story where someone's wive eagerly waited, mouth open, to eat their shit. I can't even poop with someone in the same room.

    Anything that's Zoophilia, Necrophilia, Pedophilia, actually non-consensual.

    Anything that goes too far (beating someone, burning them, like unfuck yourself).

    The gay/trans stuff, I thought about it...just can't. I don't think I would enjoy it at all, still jelous of people who can.

    Actual vore. Like, no, I don't want to burn to death in acid/suffocate on acid. I don't want whatever fever dream got me into this fetish to actually happen. But I really DO want some light-bites on me, so please do~. And also, being pinned, licked, told I taste good, milked like a Hoocow! Oh yeaah...eat me!

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago

    CNC is great... We just add a new safeword.

    She begs me to stop, I slap her in the face and tell her to be quiet.... Since she didn't use the safeword.

    She uses the safeword, and play stops.

    Never heard of CNC without a safeword

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  • [–] 10 points 10 months ago (6 children)

    Sounding gives me a visceral shudder every time I think about it. I don't want to see it. I don't want to do it. I don't want to think about it. I don't have any traumatic experience or interesting story behind it, I just hate it.

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Honestly anything involving the urethra I'd avoid. That's the hole I piss out of and I don't want to mess it up. People say the same thing about the anus (I am a big anus fan), but the urethra is a lot more delicate than the anus.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    I'm absolutely not into sounding, but one of my chastity cages came with a small sound, so I tried it.

    A lot less bad than I expected. Still don't like it, but yeah.

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  • [–] 9 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 child)

    In terms of stuff other people do like? I am so turned off by strap ons. I don't disapprove, do what you want, just not with me or where I can see it.

    Disapprove of anything truly coercive with anyone not into it - it's possible to find someone into what you want, probably no matter what you want there is someone for you. As someone else on here said "make swingers into friends, don't try to turn friends into swingers." If you are into something unusual make it a primary filter.

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  • [–] 9 points 10 months ago

    Aside from the more extreme stuff... Probably balloon popping. I hate loud noises.

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  • [–] 8 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Anything with incest influences. Instant turn off.

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  • [–] [S] 6 points 10 months ago

    "Incest: it's hot as long as it's someone else's family doing it"

    It is bizarre how prevalent the tangentially incestuous stuff is ('mommy' and 'daddy'), and also how much people joke about it. I guess humans can follow herd behaviour even when it comes to sex

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  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago (8 children)

    Weird one for me because I'm pretty kinky but I do not like butt stuff. No interest and I don't get the appeal.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago (5 children)

    Where exactly on the butt does it go from sexy to not sexy?

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  • [–] [S] 5 points 10 months ago* (3 children)

    As soon as my penis is involved.

    No to be real though, the outside of the butt is sexy, all of it, but the inside is not. The threshold of the butt is quite literally the threshold between sexy and unsexy territory.

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  • [–] 6 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    Anything that involves a third person. If I ever have sex with someone I want it to stay between the two of us. I don't want polyamory, I don't want threesome, I don't want cuckhold stuff, etc.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

    Ooh I love all those things very much ❤️ I love having sex with other people around and sharing the pleasure. But it's good to know your limits!

    I'm pretty poly oriented but I often have trouble finding even one partner so that's more the problem right now. I've had threesomes though.

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago

    For me scat. Total turn off. Or blood play.

    I do like peeing involved sometimes though. That's pretty hot.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago

    This one time we were showering before fucking. It was a big shower. And she peed in it during hour shower session. Kinda crude but it was hot

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago

    Poop, furry and diapers.

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