Being myself is what I’ve been trying and so far seems to be good. Like she asked if my humor is how I flirt and I said yes. And she wasn’t sure if I was interested or trying to be a friend but I assured her I’m interested (assuming it’s good too since she still talks with me). Because to me I love making others laugh and humors always helped me and I’d rather be my goofy self than the charsmatic flirter I’m really not.

Getting this far in dating for the first time too is just very nerve racking lol

A few days after the plan for third date we talked and I did ask if she’d like to get lunch and she said yeah however she told me she has her moms bday late afternoon (not sure if that means good cuz she wants to go out still in morning or bad cuz she doesn’t want to be out longer)

As for dressing I want to look good but not sure if my casual style would be good for the date cuz someone said “oh you should wear an adult shirt not flannel”

That’s good to know, I thought like you had to be fully confiedent but I agree being honest about not being sure about the etiquette is a good move.

And as for walking to the door would I be like “if you’d like I can walk you to the door”?

Also if I want to try holding her hand say if we cross the street should I nonchalantly stick it out?

It does I’m just both excited and nervous though Cindy I’ve never gotten this far lol.

And I’m trying to be optimistic on the I believe good signs like her telling some friends she found someone she vibes with, saying hopefully I can pick her up on future dates, etc. (I feel I might be overthinking this as good)

lol they are those new balance trainers I thought they were suede

Yup pretty much. We’ve been texting since last month and say things like “well hopefully we can flirt more often” or “hopefully we can learn more about each other” and I’m worried I’ll screw up despite the hints she would still like to continue further

What if she lives in an apartment? Buzz her down?