Not sure if this helps the struggle, but I used this app with my wife to name our kid. You link accounts and both swipe for names you like, when you get a match it tells you. It's kinda fun too.

"Baby name find it together " https://apps.apple.com/us/app/babyname-find-it-together/id950562312

I wish all posts had a detailed analysis/explanation like this. Even if I knew most of the context it was informative and nice to read.

This made die laughing hahaha