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[–] 35 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Narcissist with a victim complex. Nothing is their fault, and if it is, it affects them worse than you.

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  • [–] 4 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    what's funny is that narcissists only play the victim and never fully accept that they are the victim because they believe being the victim is beneath them.

    they generally only play the victim when it achieves their end goal.

    narcissists are the best prey to victimize because they can never admit that they are the victim when it doesn't fit their goal. not only do they suffer in silence, they spend an inordinate amount of time attempting to plan retribution which only makes them easier to manipulate. as long as you maintain the ability to stomp on their progress while achieving their goal of revenge, you can play with narcissists endlessly until they tear themselves apart.

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  • [–] 6 points 4 months ago

    Yes, this is true, I have NPD (caused by parental abuse as a small child), and it has made Me very easy to abuse. I was having flashbacks and thought spirals for years after I was abused by an intimate partner. In the end I lost My job because of it and became homeless.

    And just like any other disorder, I'd ask that you use either person first or identity first language. Person first would be "person with NPD" and identity first would be "narcissistic person". Shortening the disorder name into a label is against the APA's inclusive language guidelines because it contributes to stigma. Research has shown that stigma against NPD leads to low diagnosis rates and poor mental health outcomes.

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  • [–] 34 points 4 months ago

    Charisma and sociopathy.

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  • [–] 17 points 4 months ago* (4 children)

    Narcissistic Egotists.

    They're literally fucking up the whole world.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (3 children)

    How do you fuck a world in a literal sense?

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    Ignorance and arrogance.

    You can not know stuff. You cannot be an arsehole about it

    (Why yes i do work in tech why do you ask?)

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  • [–] 13 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    Maybe not the worst but something else: the need to be in control and the inability to make decisions.

    So you get people who want to be in charge but can't actually do anything when they are in charge.

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  • [–] 12 points 4 months ago

    Linux User and Star Trek fan

    /s

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  • [–] 12 points 4 months ago

    God Complex and Malignant Narcissism. As seen in Trump and Musk.

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  • [–] 12 points 4 months ago

    Over confidence and ignorance

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (4 children)

    depends which one you prefer.

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    they're not very creepy, and only wet on the inside.

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  • [–] 10 points 4 months ago

    Arrogance and incuriousity

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  • [–] 10 points 4 months ago

    Arrogance and ignorance.

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  • [–] 8 points 4 months ago

    Narcisism with psychopathic traits

    I had to deal with a guy with both for the past 5 years

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  • [–] 5 points 4 months ago

    Narcissism and sadism

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago

    Greed and stupidity.

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  • [–] 5 points 4 months ago

    An overblown ego & proud of being stupid.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago* (7 children)

    Bigoted and hateful. I see people in this thread vilifying mental disorders, but Nazis are way more dangerous.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (6 children)

    Yeah but aren't those kinda synonymous? Maybe it's just me, but I can't see bigotry existing without hatred of some kind.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    Hateless bigotry is stuff like casual racism, microaggressions, implicit bias.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (2 children)

    You find a whole lot of cluster b folks on the right

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    I have bigots on both sides of my parent's family and they're some hateful shitstains on the human race. Lucky me I got one side of upper middle class pretending they're rich prosperity gospel christians and on the other side poor white trash born again evangelical christians.

    Life has been so much better after cutting them all off.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago

    Cutting toxic people out will change your life and theirs for the better. I highly recommend it to everyone, especially cluster b people. There's little hope for them without professional help because they're reluctant to admit fault. Ain't nobody got time for that shit. Surround yourself with cool people and fuck the abusive fucks.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago

    Hate coworkers with ignorance and apathy.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago

    Drama-Free and Zero Tolerance.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago

    🤣 This entire thread basically just describing Trump

    It's crazy what a giant piece of shit this guy is

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago

    Sleepy and Doc

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (1 child)

    Egotism, ignorance, and obsessive personality. Then your life is completely consumed in an uphill battle of proving yourself right.

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  • [–] -3 points 4 months ago (4 children)

    French speaking and French nationality

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (2 children)

    I admire a lot about the French. As a non-French person, though, I'd never visit France. I've only met one Frenchman, he seemed alright. But, we weren't in France.

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  • [+] -6 points 4 months ago

    I'm personally not a fan of "European" and "teenager" in concert.

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