Mine was the autism diagnosis. Closer to 30 now and leveraging that knowledge for the better in my personal and professional life.

Overall not a terrible decade, but fortunately coming out of it a lot better than I went in. It can get better.

Realized that I've been on the spectrum my entire life and coming to terms with how that was reflected during my youth and into adulthood.

Also still unable to find a job for the past year and a half in the IT industry due to AI gatekeeping entry and mid-level jobs.

All while trying to renovate my late parents' house to modernize it, archiving a shit ton of documents, photos, etc. Closest thing to a "9-5" I have at the moment.

I'm 30, btw. My 20s were much more productive/active.

Why not all at the same time?

Most of my friends are people on the spectrum who turned to weed or other drugs.

It's not in my personal experience but I can totally see someone going for a Master's and a trip to Japan as well. Especially if meth is their drug of choice. Literally speedrunning.

IDK, lost mine to crippling depression.

Substance abuser gang represszz- *klunk*