This was shortly after his second wife died of cancer, if I remember correctly.
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paints a sad little hanged person from a happy little tree
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I needed this today. I’m far from home sitting in a hospice room watching my dad fade away.
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Ah man, I hope you'll be fine but sorry for this shite situation love.
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Thank you for the kindness 💜. He went as peacefully as could be hoped, and didn’t linger in that compromised state, which I know he would have hated. I was there for the last breath. I’ll be ok, even if I’m not now. Not my first parent loss, unfortunately. But I’m in a better headspace about this one. Actually crying it out, where I was just numb last time. The expression of grief is surprisingly cathartic.
Me too Bob, me too.
Almost 30 years, still waiting.
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Any day now, right? Surely...

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