Rape fantasies are a big no for me. Lost a relationship because I refused to rape her.

No hitting, no blood, no shit, no puke, no children, no rape (not even pretend rape).

Everything else is on the table.

Choking, hair pulling, sounding, and anything with the word prolapse in it.. I don't have that many off the top of my head tbh, but those ones definitely

Diapers, "adult babies", scat, vomit those are the hardest no's I have.

Most of what others have said in this thread, but I'd add the two that just make me think humanity is doomed: findom and slavery (we're talking 'permanent,' where you aren't doing it just for a day or two over the weekend) as a kink. When you go from the level of kinky fetish to living it as a lifestyle, there just seems to be something broken with that mentality.

"Gross kink" stuff. Sweaty feet, sweaty armpits, unwashed panties, etc. If you put your smelly feet near my face, I might throw up. I will definitely not have sex with you.

Adding on to what I already see commented:

• fisting (me OR them)
• smegma (was on a second date with a man and he legit whispered in my ear at the bar "I haven't washed him since we last went out, it's like prelube" and implied I needed to do it for him... NOOOOOOOO... BARF BARF BARF.. I literally turned green and he tried to play it off as a joke but I was out... jesus just thinking about it is making me queasy)
• anything without consent
• pegging
• open relationships
• swallowing (I've tried, I literally puked, never need to do it again thanks)