A great example for when people ask "why do you need to have all your appliances/lights/locks/etc be 'smart'?" - well, because if I think I forgot to turn off the stove, turn off the lights and lock the door, I can just check homeassistant and make sure.

Yeah, ADHD and ASD have been officially diagnosed, but those aren't that bad actually.
Just a few personality traits are the tough ones to deal with, mostly alexithymia and SDAM.

That’s anxiety not OCD

🧍🏻‍♀️ maaaybe we did, maaaaaaayyyyyybeeeee we did- who would know?

Hey, that's my partner.

It's about 50/50 on whether or not the anxiety is warranted, which means any time there's a worry we basically have no choice but to check. Fortunately most of the big stuff we've gotten pretty good at managing so it's mostly like, did we forget to gate the dogs in, or is there a chance we come home to a mess in the living room?

Lol, used to… they all eventually just rolled up under autism.

Tbh, learning to handle my life from that perspective has brought me a lot of relief to what would otherwise be chronic, painful anxiety/depression/obsession

Depression and addiction and autism

real shit