Being an asshole to someone you love because you didn’t take a beat to calm down after something stressful.
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Not leaving margin for error.
E.g. catch the bus/train before the one you need to. So, when it's late or canceled there's still the next one.
E.g. leave slightly earlier than needed in case the traffic is bad.
Can you teach my wife this? She leaves the house at 07:23 in the morning, because she'll arrive at work with a minute to spare. No matter if she wakes up at 05:30, she'll still run around like a headless chicken at 07:20 to get everything ready. It must be so stressful.
Maybe she's learned from Ruter or AtB how to plan her commute.
She should try my method.
Plan to have slightly later in case traffic is good, and then actually have just after work starts.
Fuck with the clock so its like 5 minutes later or something
Another frequent transit user here. When people complain that I'm early for something, I like to tell them that, since I ride transit, my choices are to be early or late, but I can't choose to be on time. 😅
Problems are like compound interest. You're going to deal with them sooner or later but if you do it later, it costs more. Deal with them sooner.
Treating other people like dirt.
The person you treat like crap today may just be the person choosing whether to save your ass tomorrow.
Notice when you are clenching your teeth and tensing your muscles when you are angry.
Then just relax all your muscles.
not being nice to cats. So many people expect them to act like dogs then get hurt and say they hate cats.
It's honestly a red flag for me if someone says they hate cats because that means they can't respect boundaries.
also,, being a Republican.
I mean, I don't like cats, but they love me. I think it's because I ignore them. Not sure why me not liking cat smell is a red flag
you are the very rare kind of good cat hater
Same, cats are fine. Them crapping in my garden not so much. Cleaning a litterbox... not happening.
OP didn't say "dislike cats", they said "not being nice to them."
If you are actually mean to them, I'd say that is a red flag. But ignoring them is fair.
I love cats and I don't respect their boundaries. No cat butts will be left unpat, you furry reaper of doom
Perfect age for this fussing & fighting--
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John Sebastian, what a day for a daydream, genius again.
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