som post i wanted to "refine" - but didnt get around to it....

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soooo have this version with a line through some l makin it look like a t... oh well...

oh yea - also dont forget to put water on face beforehand.

been posting very little on the 196 lately.... have stuff to do... like poating dum stuff bout lms for the 100th time-

so - how do u feel about a journey-game like experience? should it be accessible

  • only on pc
  • only on mobile
  • only on web browser
  • mobile and pc only
  • pc and browser only
  • mobile and web only

?

i feel the mobile form factor makes games waaaay more approachable, installing an app feels like less of an act compared to pulling an AppImage for desktop use-

how to shave without looking at yourself: take literally aby razor, take ur face, scratch it upwards against ur face until all thstubbly feels disappear, go over face with some cloth (dobt look at the cloth tho)... finally, dont touch ur face for some hours and you are done! WARNING: dont do this, you will hurt yourself

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[–] 28 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Instructions unclear.
No razor; used nail clippers.
Looked at cloth.

Is anyone O+?

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  • [–] 14 points 11 months ago

    I don't mind my face, I just found it easier to shave in shower, you really don't need a mirror

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  • [–] 12 points 11 months ago (10 children)

    That's exactly how I shave. I can't stand to look at my face...

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  • [–] [S] 10 points 11 months ago (9 children)

    yeaaaa..... its how im doin it too..... it works. it gets done... yeaaaa its fine- its oki.

    we shall continue doin that- will share better technique if i find one.

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  • [–] 15 points 11 months ago* (2 children)

    The better technique is either shower or soaking razor in hot water every X to keep it hot. Also, go first downwards then upwards. Upwards directly is too rough on the skin and you will get hurt.

    After shaving in the shower or out, throw some face lotion, specific after shave if you can so microcuts close faster and you are good to go.

    I'm a cis man and I don't mind shaving in the mirror, but I usually shave in the shower because hot hair + skin + blades = no cuts.

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago

    I don't shave my face so take this with a grain of salt, but I have been convinced by several people with shaved heads that shaving with a safety razor and badger hair brush is the way to go for the closest shave.

    It's also like INSANELY cheaper than disposable razor heads and they last longer. Like we used to buy a pack of gilette heads for $40-50 for 12 every couple of weeks, now we buy one pack of 10 blades for $5 every few months.

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  • [–] 5 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    They don't give as close a shave, and I imagine that that extra little bit matters a lot for some transfems. I certainly prefer an electric shaver (I have the Braun 9350cc), but I'm not dysphoric and I am very lazy.

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    This. Please don't use an electric razor if you're looking for gender euphoria. I use one because I'm a cis guy and I think the slight hint of stubble looks good. But for silky smooth skin no electric will ever get you there.

    You need to use a high quality razor (you'll cut yourself less as well), shaving foam (get something flowery scented if that helps with the gender feels), and you absolutely must apply damp heat to your skin first. Ideally shave in the bath or fresh out of the shower, but if that's not an option, take a cloth, soak it in very warm water (hot enough that its almost uncomfortable to touch, but not quite) and press it to your face. Apply foam. Apply towel again. Apply foam again. Now shave.

    I know that part sucks because you probably want the whole awful experience to be over as fast as possible, but a little extra time will get you a much smoother shave and you'll be less likely to cut yourself.

    Replace your razor or razor head often. Dull razors make bad skin. Men's brands are distinctly cheaper (fuck the pink tax) so if using a men's razor doesn't hit the dysphoria buttons too hard its a good deal. Harry's are exceptional quality for the price, and you can get them on a mail order subscription plan if you don't want to be seen buying them in store.

    After shaving, apply coconut oil or a high quality moisturizer. Never use alcohol based aftershaves, they dry your skin out. Plus coconut oil smells fucking great. Rub it into your scalp too, your hair will be silky soft. Better than any conditioner.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago

    Double-edged safety razors make it way cheaper to replace the blade frequently (a new blade every shave, one side per cheek isn't unreasonable at less than $0.50 for the absolute most expensive ones, less than $0.10 for most) and work quite well. I've heard they suck for anything but your face, though, so a multi-blade razor marketed to women might be your best bet for anything else.

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  • I've actually shaved without a mirror without cutting myself while in a hospital. I wouldn't recommend bc scary

    As far as your game, it would be nice to have mobile, but there are probably a lot of hurdles to it.

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    You skipped a few steps, Maria.

    First get a washcloth and take it with you into a nice hot shower. Put the razor where you can find it with your eyes shut. Lather up your hair with some nice-scented shampoo. Spread some of the lather to your face and rub the stubbly areas with the washcloth, to get the hairs lifted up and the skin pushed down. You'll get a closer shave and fewer cuts.

    Now start shaving with your eyes shut, paying attention to how the razor feels on your skin, sliding through the shampoo foam, getting rid of all that stubble.

    If you have short hair you can clean up your neck too, just feel for the edge of your hairline with a finger of your other hand so you don't shave too high. Same for in front of your ears. Then finish washing and conditioning your hair. Feel free to shave any other parts of yourself while you're in there. Just remember to give them a little rub with the soapy washcloth first.

    If you have very dry hair, you can shampoo it first, put on conditioner, and use some of that to make your face slippery for shaving, while your hair gets moisturized during those minutes.

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    I've found that the further I get with laser the more bearable it is, not just easier in general but looking in the mirror while I do it. Just can't wait until I don't need to put so much work into covering what's still there when I'm wearing makeup

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago

    How do you come up with this stuff Maria? It is inspired!

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago

    Just add being in the shower and that's what I do. Plus, I don't have issues with not being able to touch my face, and washing it after helps me find the spots I missed the first time

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago

    I shave in the shower every day, quick, easy, no razor burn.

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago

    Seconded for shaving in the shower 👌🏻👌🏻

    Also try conditioner for shaving, it's amazing and I'll never go back

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

    I've shaved blind in the shower every day for years. I just run my hand along my face directly in front of the razor as I shave to feel what the razor is about to run over before it actually gets there. For the sideburn area I put my finger at the edge of what I want to shave and just shave upwards until I bump against my finger. For the lips I just kinda curl them inward to make them as flush with my face as possible. I've memorized the contours of my face at this point.

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (4 children)

    I’m interested in that game discussion! I think something like Journey is difficult because you usually need a good art style and enough players to keep the novel multiplayer experience alive for everyone.

    The main blocker for mobile is the app store process and expectations of the type of player that would be there. Premium games don’t typically do well since people expect free games with ads and the like. Web can be okay, especially if you get into one of those free game sites, but multiplayer is still a tough nut to crack. There are some godot games on flatpak but idk how widely they’re played

    Anyway I hope that wasn’t discouraging 😅 I think designing for a Journey-like is interesting!

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    hmmmm... my idea is to have it just be a foss game which can find its way onto flatpak and the play store. ive already tried some online tests with frens over the network using a web hosted version of a game and it worked great!we app peeps were able to play and have our data transmitted - without downloading anything.

    so yeaaaa- im not really plannimg on making any money, so a sky: children of the light type thing but without microtransactions would be the goal....im not really doin this to make money - aaaaanyway-

    i feel that the magic with journey is that it can be played alone without u even noticing its multiplayer. so its a great single player game - and also a good multiplayer exp- (i just played journey recently for the first time.,.)

    thank u for ur feedback

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

    Good point, the multiplayer in Journey is a nice bonus that adds to the world. I had to look up sky: children of the light and I can see why you want your own version. And running completely in-browser is actually really cool! I tried to make a web build (targeting mobile) when 4 was new and ran into annoying problems lol

    There’s a guide to get a godot game into flathub floating around the fediverse too, if that’s what you’re using. Good luck!

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    yesyes, godot 4 very good - am always on the latest dev build >v<

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago

    PS Hi there miss! Here just to say that I appreciate your writing style! ...and apparently try to... write... maaaaybe similarly?!
    Like, have been for yeeeaaaaars?!?!???
    (But haven't expressed it enough online...?!)

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago

    I'd wanna play it on mobile and pc

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago (1 child)

    yeah I just use a foil shaver

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