That's an easy metric: as soon as the neighbor starts thinking about striking conversations again you know it's lube time.

Yeah, but the motions are easy to learn with practice. As a bonus, women get an understanding for how physically demanding thrusting is. 😏

Correct. Consent is so fucking hot. For so many reasons

I mean, insofar that violence is power, yes, the person with someone's engorged penis filled with blood (the thing people need to live) between the sharpest and hardest parts of their body (teeth) armed with the strongest muscle (the masseter, the jaw muscle), does in fact have power over the other person owning the penis.

Power over life and death is very much "power" in my book, even if I don't agree with it.

I do agree that they must have trust, otherwise it wouldn't be smart to give that much power over you to someone else.

And when it comes to regular power dynamics, yeah sure it's annoying they exist in the first place, but you can't really deny them, even if they aren't always one and the same. Not all men would be able to beat up all women, but in general, men have an advantage in physical combat. But that advantage is very much given away at least a bit when you put your dick in someone's mouth.

Then again it could be a trans woman who owns the penis and a man doing the sucking, so like assumptions, power dynamics definitely aren't always the same.

So while I agree with you that they shouldn't be intrinsic, to most people they are.

My sensibilities are more in line with Deadpool.

I mean, you're right, sure, but it's easier biting an outie than an innie.

Getting your chompers around someone's chocolate starfish would be a challenge, don't you think?