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[–] 34 points 2 weeks ago
[–] 69 points 2 weeks ago

Hey, welcome back Violet.

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  • [–] 35 points 2 weeks ago (20 children)
  • [–] [S] 52 points 2 weeks ago (19 children)

    No. Dad's is bigger. 😶‍🌫️

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  • [–] 23 points 2 weeks ago (18 children)
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  • [–] 18 points 2 weeks ago (16 children)

    Do they each know that you're dating the other one?

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  • [–] [S] 39 points 2 weeks ago (15 children)

    Yeah, it’s a Vee. Plus, we all live in the same house.

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  • [–] 30 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

    Wait, what's the difference between a triad and a triangle?

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  • [–] 25 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

    Number of simultaneous participants.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

    Is this saying a love triangle is a threesome? I've literally never heard the term love triangle describe a threesome

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  • [–] 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

    Love triangle is different, and usually context is competitive non-dating and usually in a monogamous context.

    A "love triangle" is different from a "triangle".

    A love triangle is what we see in movies from Hollywood, most commonly with two guys fighting over winning a girl or something.

    A triangle, when it comes to ENM, is when all three people sleep together.

    Whereas a triad (ENM term, again) would could be like three people (persons A, B, and C), all living alone. Look at the arrows in the picture, those are the relationships. A and B are in a relationship, but all three are not in a relationship.

    The way to think about it is, with three people in a triad, there are only three relationships. With a triangle (or another shape where everybody's in a relationship, like a quad) you add an extra relationship count for the group itself. So for a triangle (or whatever people want to call it if they want to differentiate) where it is threesomes and they all travel as a pack, there are four relationships: each couple and the group itself.

    And to make it more complicated, the shapes aren't necessarily closed: some or all of them can have other relationships, sometimes even different types, too. Like three people living and in a group relationship, and person A is simultaneously in a different trianlge or triad, and person C might have basically just a fuck buddy, or even just a cuddle partner, like if that cuddle partner has really really similar high compatibility emotionally but not sexually.

    ENM is great.

    Edit: Remember, for it to be ethical (the E in ENM), everybody has to be informed and give explicit consent. And anytime a change is made, you really should renegotiate the entire setup. Communication is everything. It's much better to over communicate than under communicate, because we live in a world where monogamy and monogamy's RULES are the assumed expectations in agreements.

    My partners and I generally will schedule weekly RADAR check ins, and as time goes on, reduce how often we do them as needed.

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  • [–] -3 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)
  • [–] 6 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

    Everyone is a consenting adult, everything is above board, and nobody’s feelings are getting bent. Why you gotta yuck someone else’s yum?

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  • [–] -2 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

    A parent and son are being paid to house and engage in a sexual/romantic relationship with the same person. If you don't think that's fucked up, well, that's also fucked up.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

    Stop gatekeeping other people’s lives

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  • [–] 17 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    I'm curious who was the third to the party and who invited them!

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  • [–] [S] 17 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)
  • [–] 51 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

    Sometimes girls have dicks too. :3

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  • [–] 72 points 2 weeks ago* (4 children)

    Yeah. And that sister's dick, is smaller than her brother's. Are you paying attention? (/j)

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  • [–] 16 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

    I do know AMAB twins where one transitioned and the other didn't. I didn't ask them who had the bigger dick though because I thought it'd be rude.

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  • [–] 20 points 2 weeks ago* (13 children)

    Anecdotally I know a guy that was, errr, sensitive, about his size. When his son was born, he was horrified to learn his son was too small to be circumsized (btw, good fuck genital mutilation).

    The kid's mother commented that he is fooling no one about why that shocked him.

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  • [+] -9 points 2 weeks ago (12 children)

    Calling it mutilation is such an awful take and smells of racism

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  • [–] 7 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

    It's fucking genital mutilation of newborns.

    Call me a fucking racist, bet.

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  • [+] -8 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

    I was "mutilated" when I was 9. It's way more hygenic and did not take anything away from me. I see it as pulling the back tooth or something. It's just skin. You are not damaging the genitalia.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

    the exposed head rubbing on underwear all the time is definitely damaging sensitive areas

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  • [–] -3 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

    I have no idea where you got that info. I'm just fine. I have never heard anyone experience anything like that.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    They are right. Some people spend years in discomfort to regrow their foreskin to undo the mutilation.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 weeks ago*

    So I'm not really sure where you get that snipping skin off of a dick of a minor for some sort of fucking religious reasons is not genital mutilation. You think it's more hygienic? Maybe you should learn to pull your foreskin back over your fucking penis head and learn to use soap and water bro.

    Oh sorry you can't cuz you got mutilated at the age of nine.

    Good talk bro

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  • [–] 4 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

    You cut the foreskin off the penis for aesthic purposes.

    Try again.

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  • [–] 20 points 2 weeks ago

    You can't just dangle a question like that, having the answer, and then not share.

    I wasn't wondering about that at all. But now I am.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 weeks ago

    Did you finish the research on twin dick sizes or is that coming up next?

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  • [–] 6 points 2 weeks ago

    I've seen some twin dicks in porn and they look identical, along with everything else.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 weeks ago

    I thought you were gone for good this time. Glad to see I was wrong. Welcome back. Good to hear you're doing well.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 weeks ago

    Sometimes the sister's dick can be better too...

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  • [–] 3 points 2 weeks ago

    Hey, welcome back, violet! Hope you’re feeling better!

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  • [–] 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    I didn't know you were from Alabama. This is some real hillbilly shit right here. Roll tide!

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