Girl any number of the fun looking vibrators will work a treat - vibrators on the frenulum or glans or even anywhere else can send you crazy.
You can get suckers similar to the clit suckers, but designed for penises (I personally have used the arcwave ion which was quite spectacular until I broke it by being negligent when I was packing toys away)
A magic wand vibrator specifically will change your life. Get a mains-powered one, if you are only going to buy one. Having something that won't die on you when you're moments away from seeing the fabric of the universe unfold, is an enormous plus.
Get yourself some nipple suckers, lovehoney has these cheap ones they call "perfect pair" but literally anything like them will do the job, and it's hands free stimulation which is awesome. Feels like someone who is just holding suction on your tit with their mouth while they focus on other stimulation.
Besides that, if a penetrative toy looks sexy to you and makes your brain run away with things, just fuckin get it and rub it on your body, grind your buttocks against it, suck on it for all I care. Sensuality is so so so heavily a mental game. The physical stimulation is important but I think I'd stop masturbating entirely if it didn't make my brain feel sexy.
Note: This is SO FAR from an exhaustive list. I have opted not to post links to any of the products I mentioned because I don't wanna seem like a shill or some shit but if you want links, I can share.
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