Thanks for such a comprehensive answer! I'll definitely look into the "Perfect Pair". I think a play partner from a few years ago had them, but that was well before I had tits.
I think the idea of going all in on sensuality too is a nice way of looking at it. I think i really need to figure out how to connect with that side of me properly, because idk... Masturbating just dont feel the same anymore and I have no idea what im doing. Hence the toy exploration ig!