Hard to go wrong with a classic Hitachi magic wand, regardless of your anatomy or preferences.

Gotta go with the classic; the Hitachi Magic Wand.

Hardware store paint shaker. Go with the model that can do five gallon buckets.

I've found this one to be convenient:

NSFW

Start small. Find an old game controller with vibration mode. Take out the weighted motor, attach it to a battery, and tape it to your dominant hand for your first session.

Honestly, as long as you get a toy that has buttplug.io support, basically anything will work

A bullet is cheap to get you started, but a rabbit is the way to go imo

The Pink Wave.

Physical therapy-level percussion massager direct to the jibblies.

https://www.erotictradeonly.com/lovense-x-openclaw-breaks-new-ground-in-app-integration/

oh no its real

https://youtu.be/5whHSF1j898

Buttplug.io is a great project, I would recommend purchasing a compatible device to learn how the library interacts with hardware and if you are capable of reverse engineering, speak with the furry to see where your resources could be used and what hardware you could experiment with.

Grok