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Is your arousal, and are your orgasms, different when you're fucking someone raw as opposed to when they're wearing a condom?

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[–] 12 points 1 month ago (1 child)

It's so much better for both. Having cum flowing in is orgasmic!

Vasectomy was the best choice we've made. We're addicted to creampies!

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  • We can answer both sides ! From the (biological) woman perspective, it changes close to nothing, even textured condoms are rarely textured enough to really feel different. Of course it changes oral but that's obivous haha

    For a guy, we find that it really varies depending on the material and thickness of the condom. Even the thinnest will never feel truly like raw, but they will still be better than thicker ones. They don't really change arousal, and to some extant can work like a cock ring by constricting the base of the shaft, extending penetration time. Orgasm wide, it's about the same as raw creampie, at least when lubrication is sufficient.

    We use them less and less because we're exclusive and tested negative for all STDs, but our main rake away is that any person (guys mostly) telling you they can't enjoy sex with condoms is either someone who doesn't know how to use them (right size and all) or someone lying, because while it is not quite as good, it is far from bad. Protect yourselves and protect others, pregnancies or STDs are never a joke !

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago

    I would say yes, with a condom, it's like HD, still good, but without it's like 4K HDR, better in almost every way.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 child)

    I love it when others are fucking my girlfriend without wearing a condom

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago*

    I'd say the climax is about the same.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Dude here, I don't have much experience without condoms but you do feel much more warmth without.

    Still, I'd rather use one and be relaxed about risks of kids/STDs

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I'm sorry to come off as bragging but the right sized condom is important. I always felt squeezed and would lose my erection from regular condoms but specialty ones seemed better. I realized there was a diameter difference and it was enough to just get bigger diameter ones and I wouldn't be uncomfortably squeezed.

    Honestly I think condoms are sometimes better when you don't want to clean up a creampie, but since I got the snip I haven't bought condoms so I don't really remember the feeling.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Every condom I Ever used busted. So glad got vasectomy have not worn a condom in over 20 years and glad for it. I am not huge by any stretch of imagination, but normal condom I think are just made to small. Especially those free ones you used to be able to get at Planned Parenthood.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Arousal definitely takes a hit when we gotta stop to put on the condom, but as far as orgasms go? Its a little easier to get my partner off with it on tbh, and thats worth something. That part at least feels good, even if the act itself is less physically satisfying.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Always prefer raw if it's an option, but I don't think it affects my arousal or orgasm

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    Raw is better for me as a penis-owner, but sex with a condom is still great. I go raw with my wife but use condoms with my girlfriend. But sometimes I'll use a condom with my wife too, either to make clean-up eaiset or to just shake things up and get a different feel.

    Condoms make it difficult to cum,so I've only finished inside my gf a handful of times. However, it usually feels stronger. Similar to a cock ring. It is a bit weird and maybe uncomfortable once the reservoir fills and i'm still cumming because I can feel the back pressure, but still feels great.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 month ago

    For me both are fine, but if there is not special reason to use a condom, then I prefer raw.

    My wife and I are exclusive, and right now she is recovering from birth and doesn't wanna go on hormones right away, so we use condoms. In the future we will probably go back to some contraceptives on her side such that we can go raw. And once we know that we don't want children anymore, I'll get a vasectomy. That will relieve some effort from her side, and I look forward to that. But that may take a few more years.

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