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[–] 39 points 4 months ago* (1 child)

I care. I am very interested in having men not want me.

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  • [–] 34 points 4 months ago

    Tell me what men don't want in a woman so I can look into picking up some new hobbies <3

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  • [–] 32 points 4 months ago (8 children)

    In my experience, men are pretty thirsty and for every "Men don't want" rule there will be plenty of exceptions.

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  • [–] 6 points 4 months ago (4 children)

    So much of "men don't want" is either negging or "want but don't want to be seen in public with" behaviors. And then the audacity to act like they're doing me a favor with their interest 🤮

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  • [–] 4 points 4 months ago (3 children)

    True! It's so gross how often men think "instead of interacting with you like a fellow human and an equal, i'll talk down to you and somehow that's going to make you interested"

    Like it's not the 1900s dude, we can just stay single (or date each other!). We don't need y'all.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    Literally, I'm a trans lesbian and interacting with men is an exercise in waiting for them to say or do something gross. Gay men too ironically, something about being gay and trans at the same time screws with people's gender/sexuality assumptions.

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  • [–] 4 points 4 months ago

    Unfortunately gay men aren't any more immune from toxic masculinity and misogyny than straight men. I think on average they're more likely to examine those biases, but it still takes work like all of us and some refuse to do it.

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  • [–] 13 points 4 months ago

    Usually the same people who say "Not all men." So which is it? Are you a hivemind or not?

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  • [–] 12 points 4 months ago

    That's just a man frustrated that he can't attract a woman - and also assuming that a woman wants a man the same way he wants a woman.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago

    It does make me wonder, if these men are so uninterested, why are they bothering me?

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