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Anon puts himself out there (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 1 year ago by to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
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[–] 43 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Too much crazy too fast. You gotta sit on that shit for a while, and then let it out slowly.

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  • [–] 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I got to "she has to go to bed" before I realised that this was all the same day.

    Trauma dumping can be cathartic but perhaps maybe don't do it within the first two hours of having met someone. Also don't do it too much because your problems aren't there problems.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    It's definitely a third date or beyond activity. When I was single, I always asked third dates to compare their emotional baggage with me, but wouldn't discuss it in depth until later. We all have it, so might as well bring it out but not all of it at once. Better to savor the pain.

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