I know it may feel like that because of some very elitist mindsets shared by a very vocal minority of the community, but it's just rubbish. You can play the game however way you want. I've gotten to a point where I'm using both the Mimic Tear and a summon whenever I can for the Elden Ring DLC's bosses. I don't have to prove myself that I can beat this boss on my own, the "real" way, and can just cut it short for my own time's sake and my enjoyment. It's been doing wonders for my enjoyment so far and it makes me not feel as discouraged when playing. If somebody wants to discredit my experience, they can just fuck right off lol.
Just some food for thought - absolutely fine if that's what you want from the game. I used to be like that too.
Fun fact, you don't need the Saintess statue to respec your stats anymore. It used to be that way, but you can just respec at the Gold Coin Tree as of quite some time now. Makes it easier to experiment with your builds. :)
Great, looking forward to it. :) What's your favourite weapon (combination) prior to the respec and after it now that you have your desired stats?